How to Tackle Problems??

Life is nothing but a collection of moments, collection of relations, collection of words and collection of actions and reactions. Some are good, some are bad, and some are awesome while some are like nightmares.

Everyone face these things in life but most of the time the focus is on the things or relations which didn’t go right.

Everyone is facing one’s own struggle and almost everyone thinks that there’s the toughest life one could ever have.

I was wondering like what kind of problems people generally have and I could think of few of them mentioned below (and here I am talking about the problems which cause major mental stress):

1) Teenagers think that their parents don’t understand them and vice versa as well.

2)  Another issue with teenagers or young adults is to anyhow get the person whom they love, whether that person wants them or not…a big, real big problem.

3) Even when the relationship begins, problem of compatibility comes because everyone wants the other person to understand their point without any effort on their part to understand other side. And this issue can happen in any kind of relationship, be it personal or professional.

4) As per a survey, about 80% of the people hate their jobs and considering major part of the day people spend with their work, that frustration is bound to spread in their lives.

5) Parents want their children to do what they couldn’t do but children have their own dreams and when they don’t match, a civil or cold war starts at home.

6) Most of the people don’t even know what do they want and few of those who know that, very few of them are able to follow their dreams and it kills them from inside.

7)Fear of acceptance is also one of the major problems and this is one thing which makes people do so many weird things which wouldn’t go normally with their life plan or their conscience.

8) Everybody is busy in driving their car without stopping to refill it or get it serviced. Somewhere down the line, it is bound to get crashed.

These are the major issues and almost every second person is facing at least one of them. Majority of these issues come because either we don’t know ourselves or we don’t want to understand the other person.

Everybody has got this inner sense of getting at the top of whatever they do or doing what they really like to do.

That thing can happen only when we know what are, what we want. Not the one we show to others to get acceptance in the society but the real one, the one which had come on this planet with a purpose and until a sincere effort starts on that route, that inner fight would continue.

Second one is the subset of first problem. If the first one gets solved, the second would automatically dissolve.

A person with a clear vision of what one is and what one wants would have a good self-image and a good relation with oneself and our relations with others are merely a reflection of what relation we have with ourselves.

Most of us are too occupied in having our daily fight of survival; let’s leave this one person alone with whom we are totally at peace and have no issue and that person is standing in the mirror when you stand in front of it.

Just be with that person, understand what it want, love it, and it would take you to the heights of life, you wouldn’t have imagined in your wildest dreams.

I am not saying that the problems would vanish then, I am just saying that the size of the problems would be too small in front of you and I think in the larger scheme of life filled with happiness and joy, tiny things seldom matter.